the simple truth about women is we are intrinsically the same on the inside. we all want to feel we are beautiful, valued, respected and loved. sometimes along the path to obtaining these internal truths we find that we are giving other women - our sisters - the exact opposite of what we want for ourselves. these are the times when we are not loving ourselves and life seems to throw us a barrage of bad relationships, fake friends and other opportunists who take from us without giving anything in return. we become empty. why?
the short holistic answer to that is the energy you put into the world is the energy you receive in return. the Southern Grandma answer is "what goes in the wash, comes out in the rinse, darlin'!"
it comes to reason that if you're baggin' on one of your sistas about how she's dressed, her last season shoes & or her physical appearance without offering advice on how to accentuate her positive attributes, then you're not feeling beautiful either. as Southern Grandma would say, "God don't like ugly." she wasn't talking about a person's face either.
if you're knocking a sista because you feel you could do what she's doing better than she's doing it, then you're really feeling undervalued yourself.
if you're flirting or creeping with someone else's significant other, because you think you can, and disrespecting a sista, then it's really because you have no self respect. even if you feel since you've been wronged in this way by another it's your way to right your wrong, the truth is no self respecting sista would accept being put in the "less than good enough to be the one & only" category.
so how is true, real love supposed to find you if you're surrounded by all this mess? you are buffered by untruths, contrary to your intrinsic nature. love is truth, but it won't find you if you're living here.
nice truthful read
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